Traditions are so important in our busy lives as they provide us a sense of comfort, stability and familiarity. They work even better when we keep the ones that are most meaningful and pair those with new and modern ones that add to that sense of belonging.
Weddings are rich in customs that have been passed down from generation to generation but you may not want to keep every single one. Some traditions of the past don’t work for a modern couple so it may be time to create your own or revamp others to your own personal taste.
9 New Wedding Traditions to Check Out
Adding one or more of these new or altered wedding customs could help you make your big day the unique and special experience that you’ve been dreaming of.
- Have a smaller wedding party
Couples are now opting for a smaller group of friends to stand up with them. It not only feels more intimate and special, but it also saves time, money and frustration with logistics. Think of all those appointments for hair, makeup and fittings! - Phone etiquette
People are seeing a rise in asking guests to limit cell phone use at the ceremony. Simply explain that the photographer will capture everything and you won’t have to see a sea of phones if you glance out in the crowd. - Hire a planner
Today’s brides often have a full-time job and an extremely full life leaving them little time to browse on Pinterest boards to create their dream wedding. The price of a planner can be well worth it! - Ditch the bouquet toss
This, along with the garter toss, is a custom that can be removed from the night in order to give more time for dancing and socializing with friends and family. - Incorporate social media
Using hashtags and filters are a fun way to keep your guests linked over social media platforms. Some couples even create geofilters (location-based overlays) to use when posting from the wedding. - Choose your own music
Make music choices that are meaningful to your relationship; they don’t have to be the typical traditional songs. Pick those that allow your guests to reminisce with you or show them what you are like as a couple through your songs. - Branding the wedding
You can help make your day feel cohesive with the use of a color palette, fonts and even textures. - New take on the cake
There are lots of alternatives if you want your sweets to reflect your own unique taste. You can try anything from a cheese wheel to cupcakes or even a donut display. - Focus on the guests
Some couples want to focus more on the guest experience by booking extra entertainment through the event and giving them a memorable night.
Keep the Classics
The key to adding in a new tradition that you and your guests will love is to not overdo it with crazy customs. Make them fun, memorable and few. Or just update some old customs with a new twist. Either way be sure to keep the tried and true like your first dance as a married couple or wearing white. Create the perfect mix of old and new to show off your unique relationship.
References:
- 8 New Wedding Traditions Every Modern Couple Will Love. www.instyle.com. (Accessed June 19 2021).
- New Wedding Traditions You’ll Love. www.wedgewoodweddings.com. (Accessed June 19 2021).